When I’m 65

This year, I and many of my friends will celebrate 65 evolutions around the sun. We will officially be senior citizens! That brings with it a certain amount of benefits and accolades. The only difference I personally notice are a few more aches and pains, but that I think is to be expected. I’ve used this body, good or bad, for 64 years.

My only problem is when people say, “You don’t look (insert age here).” So, exactly what is 60 something supposed to look like? I’m never going to look 20 again; or 30 or 40. I will claim some wrinkles, but my hair has been greying since I was in my 30’s. For years I chose to color it. I recently had it cut down to the grey. I have done the “big chop” a few times in my life; usually at milestone birthdays. I was a little apprehensive about exposing my grey hair, but I really like it. I’ve earned this grey hair.

I say embrace your age. You have gotten this far by God’s grace. You may have a few aches and health issues, but you’re here. These days the saying that age is just a number is true. So many “senior citizens” are thriving and living more active lives than younger people.

To quote Eartha Kitt, “Aging has a wonderful beauty and we should have respect for that.” Embrace it and be thankful. I am more comfortable with myself now than I ever have been. I can and will do all I can to stay healthy. I’m just trying to take care of myself mentally and physically. My focus is on doing what I want, when I want, with who I want. I lived to please others earlier in my life. Now, my life is about living for me. Giving myself grace to age. Excuse me as I sign up for AARP and Medicare.

How are you approaching aging?